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What is The Power of Forgiveness?

Forgiveness

Forgiveness has the power to truly set us free

Take a closer look at the word Forgiveness. Notice the word right in the middle, you can break it down into its parts: For-give-ness or for-given-ess. The revelation staring us right in the face here, is the fact that you can only give forgiveness, it can only be given and can never be taken. No one can take your forgiveness from you. No one can force you to forgive. Therein lies the power of forgiveness.

Forgiveness isn’t so much a release, or a get out of jail free card for the perpetrator. It is however, true freedom for the victim. When we forgive somebody we effectively set ourselves free. That’s the power of forgiveness.

Free from the hurt, free from the anger and free from the psychological, emotional and spiritual control that the situation, offence, abuse or affliction has held over us.

Forgiveness doesn’t let them off the hook

To forgive someone doesn’t necessarily mean that we have to trust them again. Trust and forgiveness are two completely seperate things. Forgiveness is given, trust is earned. Forgiveness doesn’t let them off the hook. They will still have to give account for what they’ve done, either in this life or in the next.

Forgiveness doesn’t set the perpetrator free. In many cases they have no idea that you’ve even forgiven them. Forgiveness does however set you free. It releases your heart from the strangle hold of the offence. It limits the damage from going deeper, preventing the hurt from developing into bitterness and in turn hardening your heart.

Keep your heart with all diligence,
For out of it spring the issues of life.

 — Proverbs 4:23 NKJV

Above all else we need to protect our heart, it’s like an inner child, the innocence within us that loves unconditionally. We protect this most vulnerable part of ourselves by consciously guarding it. Not that we should take it so far as to become guarded people, with our defensive walls up all the time.

Unfortunately, so many people, once damaged, retreat to a defensive posture and transform themselves to become like fortified castles, never to let anyone else in ever again. Rather, we are better served, to once again learn to trust people. Only this time, we need to do so according to their character, and not just by the words they speak or how widely they can smile.

“I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.” 

— Martin Luther King, Jr.

A man’s character is the measure of a man

We must learn to measure people for their trustworthiness, by their character alone. It’s the only reliable method by which we can ascertain their moral fibre, their honesty, their integrity, their dependability and uprightness. To depend on them or to trust them based on anything else, is setting ourselves up for a fall, for more abuse, for heartache, and for devastation that we could do better without.

We need to remember that forgiveness is seperate from trust. Although this may be true, most of us have allowed the two to become deeply intertwined within our psyche. We need to learn to seperate them again, if we ever hope to enjoy the full freedom that effective forgiveness brings.

Trust must be earned

Just because you’ve forgiven someone, doesn’t mean you have to automatically trust them again. In fact you’d be foolish to do so. They need to earn your trust. And as we all know only too well. It can take a lifetime to earn trust and only seconds to destroy it.

When we first meet someone, we have to give them the benefit of the doubt. We’re compelled to trust them enough, to let them in far enough, that we have the opportunity to measure their character. Look for character flaws like gossip. If they gossip to you about someone else, then you can bet your bottom dollar, they will gossip about you as well. So don’t trust them with your personal secrets.

Are they hot tempered or pushy? If they are, then don’t give them your submissiveness or obedience, as they will soon walk all over you. Give them an inch and they will take a mile. Are they willing to lie to you about something small? Then they will lie to you when it really matters about the most devastating things. Will they borrow or steal the small things from you that they never repay? Then they will take everything from you and leave you destitute with nothing.

Only trust people in the areas where their character confirms that they are trustworthy. If they lack the character needed for you to trust them, then forgive them and move on.

Forgiveness is a Decision

Forgiving someone starts with a choice to do so. Try speaking your decision out loud… “I forgive ______ for what they did/said to me”. When you first say it, it will seem like you’re telling a lie. You’ll most likely feel nothing. Just coldness in your heart towards them. Say it again. You might not feel much happen at first. But believe me the release is coming. Your words are like deep cracks forming in a mighty dam. Say it again! Every time you think of them, or every time you think of the offence or the hurt. Keep on saying it and eventually that dam will break and out of your heart will flow a massive release, that truly will set you free!

For further reading on forgiveness and how you can find genuine freedom through it, take a look at “Do Yourself A Favor… Forgive” by Joyce Meyer. If it’s your first audiobook, you can download it for free on Amazon. It’s well worth the listen.


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Developing a Healthy Work Ethic: Tips and Strategies for Success

Dealing with the lethargy that lures us into mediocrity.

Developing a strong work ethic is vital for success in any job. A good work ethic will help you stay motivated, focused, and productive at work. It can also help you establish a great reputation among your coworkers and employers, resulting in better job chances and career progression.

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Understanding the reasons why we should have a strong work ethic, is naturally the first step towards actually cultivating a strong work ethic.

Work ethic is the set of beliefs and concepts that guide our behavior and attitude toward work. It comprises qualities like punctuality, dependability, self-discipline, and accountability. A strong work ethic is defined by a dedication to excellence, a desire to put in the necessary effort to attain your objectives, its that roll-up-your-sleeves attitude. That sense of accountability for your actions and their repercussions.

Key Takeaways

  • Building a strong work ethic is critical for success in any job.
  • Understanding your work ethic is the first step toward developing a strong work ethic.
  • A strong work ethic is defined by a dedication to excellence, self-discipline, and accountability.

For further reading or for a free Audio book on developing good work habits take a look at the book Atomic Habits by James Clear
I have also written a book summary for this book that you can read here.

Understanding Your Work Ethic

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Definition of Work Ethic

As we discuss having a good work ethic, it is vital to first explain what that term means.

work ethic (noun): a belief in work as a moral good : a set of values centered on the importance of doing work and reflected especially in a desire or determination to work hard — Merriam-Webster Dictionary

Work ethic is a set of moral ideas, values, and attitudes that determine how people approach work. It includes activities that are acceptable and appropriate in the workplace. Punctuality, dependability, accountability, and dedication are all common characteristics of a strong work ethic.

Historical Perspectives

The concept of work ethic has a long history, dating back to prehistoric times. Work was regarded as a virtue in ancient Greece, and people were expected to put forth extra effort to help society. Similarly, in ancient Rome, hard effort was prized, while being sluggish or idle was frowned upon. During the Industrial Revolution, work ethic became even more crucial as factories and mass manufacturing demanded discipline and efficiency from workers.

Cultural Variations in Work Ethic

Work ethic varies among nations and societies. For example, in some cultures, such as Japan, working long hours and being committed to your work are highly prized. In contrast, certain European countries, such as France, place a larger focus on work-life balance, encouraging people to take time off to pursue recreational pursuits. Understanding cultural differences in work ethic is essential for working well with people from various backgrounds.

It’s worthy to note here that there is a stark difference between a Generation Y or a Millennial gamer, who hardly manages to tear themselves away from their gaming console in their parents basement. To an overachieving busybody who has zero life balance, makes everyone else around them feel like crap and is making strides following their personal road to a monumental burnout. The bulk of people fall somewhere in the middle and cultural backgrounds, whilst they do account for some variance, are not an excuse for either extreme. However, understanding their nuances will help us to work better with them.

Overall, developing a healthy work ethic requires an awareness of the definition, historical viewpoints, and cultural variances. People who recognize the value of work and maintain a positive attitude toward it can become more productive, efficient, and successful in their jobs.

Components of a Healthy Work Ethic

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As someone who has built a strong work ethic, I feel that several critical components contribute to a successful and productive work ethic. Professionalism, responsibility, honesty, and accountability are some of these components.

Professionalism

Professionalism is an important component of a strong work ethic. It entails keeping a cheerful attitude, being punctual, dressing appropriately, maintaining personal hygiene and personal grooming and interacting successfully with coworkers and clients.

We’ve all met the guy who might dress appropriately, but absolutely reeks of body odor. Perhaps he visits the gym before work without taking a shower afterwards and has an aversion to wearing any underarm deodorant. Will this hurt his career? From a distance no. But as soon as he gets within whiffing distance to close a deal he will naturally suffer losses.

We’ve also all met the proverbial Karen, who refuses to maintain a cheerful attitude. She might be at times the best sales lady on the floor, but due to her refusal to maintain her cheerfulness, she loses out big time on so many potential sales.

Therefore, professionalism also entails respecting others around us. Respecting people and their perspectives, as well as being receptive to feedback and constructive criticism.

Responsibility

Taking responsibility for your actions is another essential component of a strong work ethic. This includes accepting responsibility for your faults and taking steps to fix them. If an employer sees this quality in you, they will be much more likely to forgive your transgressions. Their patience with you will be greater, knowing that your failings are a temporary situation, and are simply a part of your training cost.

Responsibility is also modelled by being proactive, by taking the initiative to do duties without being asked. A boss will always smile upon the employee who picks up the broom and sweeps the floor, when all the other workers just stand around and talk amongst themselves. Guess who the boss will promote when the time comes? Responsible people are reliable, dependable, and trustworthy, all of which are highly prized in the job.

Integrity

Integrity is a necessary component of a strong work ethic. It means remaining honest, ethical, and transparent in all areas of your work. You would have heard it said: “A man is only as good as his word” or “a woman is only as good as her word”. If your boss can’t trust what you say, they definitely won’t trust what you’ll do. People with integrity are distinguished by their strong moral values and dedication to doing the right thing, even if it is difficult or unpopular.

It’s found in the little things, like turning up on time. Being there when you said you would be. Not wasting other people’s time. And not claiming pay for time you didn’t work. These are the things that employers notice. People with integrity are known for their trustworthiness, which is critical when developing great relationships with coworkers and clients.

Accountability

Accountability is the final component of a strong work ethic. It’s hallmarked by taking ownership of your efforts and being accountable for the results. In order to overcome your problems you must first own them. By owning them you gain the power and authority to do something about them. This involves creating specific goals, tracking progress, and making necessary adjustments to guarantee successful accomplishment. Accountable people are proactive, results-oriented, and determined to achieve their goals.

In summary, developing a healthy work ethic requires numerous critical components, including professionalism, responsibility, honesty, and accountability. People who focus on these factors often become more productive, successful, and valued members of their workplace or organization.

Developing Your Work Ethic

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Developing a healthy work ethic is critical to success in any job. Here are some tips I have found useful:

Self-Assessment

If you’re really serious about growing your work ethic into one of your strengths, you should begin by evaluating your existing work habits. Take a deep breath and take a good, long, hard look at yourself. Be honest with yourself and consider your strengths and weaknesses. Identify areas for improvement, things such as time management, workplace attitude or your ability to remain task focused. If you’re courageous enough, tell a trusted work colleague that you’re trying to improve your work ethic and ask them to be brutally honest with you. Once you’ve identified your areas in need of adjustment, use these insights to develop a strategy for improvement.

Goal Setting

“If you fail to plan, you are planning to fail” — Benjamin Franklin.

Setting objectives is a key step toward developing a strong work ethic. It’s critical to have specific, quantifiable goals to work towards. Break down your goals into smaller, more manageable activities. This will help you maintain motivation and attention and will keep you moving forward.

“If you don’t fail, you’re not even trying. To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did. If I’m going to fall, I don’t want to fall back on anything, except my faith. I want to fall forward. At least I figure that way I’ll see what I’m about to hit. Fall Forward!” — Denzel Washington

Time Management

Effective time management is essential for building a strong work ethic. Make a schedule and prioritize your responsibilities. Use calendars and to-do lists to keep organized. Avoid procrastination. Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can achieve today. Time waits for no one. Stay focused on your goals.

Continuous Learning

Success in developing a good work ethic requires ongoing learning. Stay up to date on industry trends and best practices. Attend conferences and workshops, study professional magazines, subscribe to industry blogs or email lists and look for mentorship possibilities. This will keep you motivated, increase your abilities and will give you the edge over you competition when it comes to the next job promotion.

Creating a good work ethic requires time and effort. Rome wasn’t built in a day and nor is your character perfected in a week. Good things take time and building a quantifiable, notable work ethic is akin to this. By applying yourself and following some of these suggestions, you will position yourself for success.

Challenges to Your Work Ethic

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Developing a strong work ethic is not always simple. There are numerous challenges that can interrupt our development and potentially impede our capacity to remain focused and productive. Let’s examine some of the most prevalent difficulties to our work ethic and hopefully offer some solutions to overcome them.

Procrastination

“I never put off till tomorrow what I can do the day after.” –Oscar Wilde

Procrastination is something I have come to accept as a necessary evil. It’s a part of all of us, and is what I would call a form of coping mechanism to relieve an imbalance of stress. Someone once said I’d amount to nothing. I replied “Just wait and see”. Unfortunately though it’s still one of the most significant impediments to having a good work ethic.

It’s easy to become distracted by social media, emails, and other non-work-related activities. One method for overcoming procrastination is to set and stick to a schedule. This might help you stay focused and avoid distractions. Another method is to divide larger jobs into smaller, more manageable chunks, like the rungs of a ladder. If you break it down to a step at a time, eventually you’ll be at the top. This helps you avoid feeling overwhelmed and reduces the reliance on and prevalence of procrastination.

Burnout

Burnout is another issue that can affect work ethic. Take breaks and prioritize self-care to avoid burnout. I believe we are created in the image of God as triune beings. I believe we have three aspects that make up our being: Spirit, Soul and Body.

Imagine for a moment that each of these aspects are like three tanks that can be filled or emptied. For us to function at full capacity we need all three tanks to be full. If any one of these tanks is emptied, we will grind to a halt.

Empty your spirit and you’ll become lifeless, running on autopilot, directionless, lost, acting like a zombie. Empty your soul and you’ll be passionless, loveless, lacking motivation, depressed and unable to focus. Empty your body and you’ll become tired, lacking energy, and eventually even sick and diseased.

Keeping your tanks full is the antidote to all of these afflictions. This can involve eating healthy, getting some exercise, going for a walk, practicing mindfulness, or participating in hobbies outside of work. Keeping your spirit ablaze with the light and life that comes from a relationship with Christ. Joining a faith community. Doing things that refresh your soul: watching a sunset with a loved one or watching a funny movie. All of these things will give you greater resilience against burnout.

Setting reasonable goals and expectations will also assist in avoiding burnout. It’s critical to know when you need a break and even more important to actually take the time to refresh.

Distractions

Distractions can take various forms, such as emails, phone calls, and social media updates. Your boss might have a flexible phone policy set in your workplace. Whilst this is nice, you don’t want to be the guy or gal who is always found on your phone, as it smacks of a slack work ethic. To reduce distractions, switch off notifications and set aside a specific time to check your emails and messages. On top of this, creating a calm and organized workstation will help you to eliminate distractions and boost your productivity. Now you’ll be noticed by the boss for the right reasons.

Creating a strong work ethic can be a hard road to hoe, it’s difficult, but it’s doable. You can boost your productivity and achieve your objectives by recognizing and tackling typical issues like procrastination, burnout, and distractions.

Maintaining Your Work Ethic

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Maintaining a good work ethic is just as vital as developing one. Let’s go over a few suggestions and tactics that will help you retain your work ethic.

Work-Life Balance

Maintaining a healthy work-life balance is paramount if you desire to remain motivated and productive. It’s crucial to establish boundaries and prioritize your time between your work and personal life. One strategy to attain work-life balance is to establish and adhere to certain work hours.

The age-old ideal of 8+8+8=24 still rings true today. 8hrs of work, 8hrs of play and 8hrs of rest is the perfect daily balance in a perfect world. However, as we all know, this world is no longer perfect. Aiming for the ideal is still ideal. But the reality is that you’ll probably burn the candle at both ends, to make those ends meet. Do your level best to maintain a balance. This will help you prevent overworking and eventual burnout.

Stress Management

Stress can be a significant barrier to maintaining a healthy work ethic. It is critical to identify stressors in the workplace and devise stress-management measures. One successful strategy is to take numerous breaks or what I like to call micro-breaks during the day to refuel and refocus. Micro-breaks can be as simple as standing up from your desk and stretching. Or changing tasks from something physically demanding to complete the necessary paperwork before returning to the original task. Mindfulness, prayer and meditation can also aid with stress management and attention.

Motivation Techniques

Staying motivated is essential for having a good work ethic. Beyond the motivational posters often adorning workplace walls, setting realistic objectives and tracking your progress is one way to stay motivated. Popping some corks and celebrating minor accomplishments along the road will also help you stay motivated and interested. Finding a mentor or accountability partner, whether your boss or a co-worker, can also help you keep on track by providing support and encouragement.

Maintaining a good work ethic really does necessitate a dedication to work-life balance, excellent stress management, and continuous motivational strategies. Implementing these tactics will help you stay focused, productive, and motivated in your workplace.

Work Ethic in Different Scenarios

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As someone who has worked in a variety of contexts, I can tell you that work ethic varies tremendously depending on the circumstances. Here are some observations I’ve noticed in various work environments:

Remote Work

Remote work can be an excellent approach to attaining a decent work-life balance. But it necessitates discipline and a solid work ethic. When working from home or a remote location, it might be more tempting to procrastinate or to become distracted by personal tasks or YouTube and Netflix! To combat this, make a schedule and keep to it. Creating a defined office space and eliminating distractions can also help you to remain focused.

Team Environments

The group dynamic in team settings can have an impact on work ethic. A good teamwork culture can increase individual accountability and push team members to work harder. There’s nothing like watching the AllBlacks play good rugby. As a team they work together like a well oiled machine. 

The team as a whole, synergizes their individual efforts, extracting star performances out of each player, culminating in a winning performance that multiplies their individual efforts, to see the entire team work as one to thrash the competition. On the other hand, a poor teamwork spirit can result in decreased productivity and accountability. Do your best to encourage open communication and set clear expectations to help build a strong teamwork attitude.

Leadership Roles

As a leader, it’s on you to set a good example for your team in terms of work ethics. Leading by example can motivate teammates to work harder and be more productive. It’s also imperative to establish clear expectations and provide regular feedback to your team members, if you want to promote accountability. As a leader, I’ve seen that delivering constructive criticism and rewarding hard effort goes a long way toward developing a strong work ethic amongst team members.

When you need to bring correction, try using what I like to call the “Rebuke Sandwich”. It goes like this: Encouragement, followed by correction or rebuke, followed by encouragement. You’ll open them up and lower their defences with the first encouragement. Then you can hit them up the side of the head with your correction. Then from there you can quickly smooth it back over with the second encouragement. Before they even know what hit them, you’ll have them purring again like a Cheshire cat. And you’ll be able to walk away singing the Michael Jackson song… “You’ve been hit by, you’ve been hit by, a smooth criminal”. dun diggy diggy dun dun, diggy dun dun, diggy dun dun dun.

Overall, work ethic is a critical component of any employment. Individuals who understand how work ethic varies in different circumstances can design ways to maintain a strong work ethic and contribute to a productive work environment.

Measuring Work Ethic

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Developing a strong work ethic is like money in the bank when it comes to success in any job. But how do you assess work ethics? Here are a few various approaches to assessing your work ethic:

Performance Reviews

Performance reviews, whilst almost universally despised, are an excellent technique to assess work ethic. Rather than seeing them as a threat to your existence in the workplace, see them as an avenue to assist you in understanding how well you are doing your work and more importantly, how you might improve.

During a performance review, your supervisor or boss will assess your job performance, including your work ethic. They will usually give you comments on areas where you can improve while also recognizing your talents and where you’re doing well. If they’re good at their job, they’ll probably use something like the “Rebuke Sandwich” I mentioned earlier on you, so when the first encouragement comes, steel yourself, get ready for the coming hits.

Self-Evaluations

Self-evaluation is another approach to assess your work ethic. It provides an opportunity to reflect on your work performance and evaluate your own work ethic. As mentioned earlier you should take a deep breath, take a good, long, hard look at yourself and assess your working habits, time management abilities, and productivity. By doing so, you can discover areas for improvement and come up with a strategy to improve your work ethic.

Peer Feedback

Feedback from colleagues, co-workers or teammates is a great tool to evaluate your work performance and work ethic. They can give you useful information about your work habits, time management abilities, and productivity. When this is offered spontaneously it can easily be seen as a personal attack. Regardless of the intent, you can utilize this feedback to improve your work ethic and become a more effective employee. See it as constructive criticism. You might need to filter out the destructive bits if the person offering the criticism is a real Karen.

Measuring work ethic will ultimately help you to cultivate a good work ethic. Performance assessments, self-evaluations, and peer feedback are all effective approaches to assess where you’re at. Using these strategies, you can identify areas for improvement and create a strategy to improve your work ethic.

Improving Your Work Ethic

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As I’ve discovered from personal experience, developing a healthy work ethic is tantamount to professional success. Here are some ways that have helped me enhance my own work ethic:

Professional Development

One strategy to improve your work ethic is to prioritize your professional growth. This can include taking classes, attending conferences, or looking for mentorship possibilities. Investing in your own growth and development allows you to become a more skilled and knowledgeable worker, which will lead to increased job satisfaction, success and eventual promotion. If you’re running your own business, investment in yourself will eventually result in a healthier bottom line. You are your greatest asset!

Mentorship

Another strategy to improve your work ethic is to seek guidance from more experienced colleagues or an industry influencer. A mentor can offer direction, support, and advise as you progress in your profession. Learning from someone who has already achieved success in your industry allows you to obtain vital insights while also developing the skills and habits required for greater success.

“If I have seen further it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” — Sir Isaac Newton

Feedback Cultures

Additionally, establishing a culture of feedback in your business can potentially help you enhance your own work ethic. By soliciting feedback from co-workers and managers, you can identify areas for improvement and work to fix them. By providing feedback to others, you can further assist to foster a culture of continual growth and support at your company. Remember to utilise the “Rebuke Sandwhich” if you’re going to provide constructive criticism. And try not to overdo it, so that you don’t come off as a workplace busybody or worse, a real Karen. First and foremost ensure that you lead by example and drive a culture change.

Overall, strengthening your work ethic is a continuous process that takes commitment, effort, and a desire to learn and progress. You can acquire the habits and abilities required for work success by focusing on professional development, seeking mentorship, and developing a feedback culture.

The Future of Work Ethic

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As the labor market evolves and technology develops, the importance of work ethic grows. Let me explain how technology and the changing employment market will more than likely affect work ethic going into the future.

Technological Impact

Technology has altered how we operate and will continue to do so. While technology offers numerous advantages, it can also have a negative impact on work ethic. For example, constant connectivity and access to work via technology can result in burnout and a lack of work-life balance. Furthermore, the usage of technology might cause distractions and a decline in productivity.

However, technology can also help to increase work ethic. For example, project management tools can assist individuals in staying organized and on track. Time-tracking software can help people better manage their time. Conversely, remote work technologies provide greater flexibility and may lead to better job satisfaction and improved work-life balance.

Evolving Job Market

The employment market is continuously changing, and it is critical to keep up with the current trends and expectations. In recent years, there has been a trend toward a more entrepreneurial mindset, with a focus on creativity and invention. This transition has resulted in an increased emphasis on self-motivation and self-discipline.

In addition, the gig economy has grown in popularity, with many people preferring freelance or contract work over regular jobs. This transition has resulted in an increased emphasis on self-management and accountability.

Overall, the future of good work ethics will be molded by technological advancements and a changing job economy. Staying informed and adaptive is crucial for success in an ever-changing market.

In Conclusion

All said and done, when it comes to work ethic there’s still nothing like the satisfaction that comes from knowing that you did your best. When you’ve worked hard, and have the results to prove it. The hard work brings the success you desired. The job satisfaction that comes as a result. The camaraderie, backslapping and high fives from team members who shared in the work and success, all make the efforts worthwhile. Build that great reputation among your coworkers and employers, resulting in better job chances and career progression. Work hard and the rewards will be yours in abundance.

For further reading or for a free Audio book on developing good work habits take a look at the book Atomic Habits by James Clear
I have also written a book summary for this book that you can read here.

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